93 Flirty Texts for Him to Make Him Want You

Flirting over text is an exciting way to spark a connection and keep the chemistry alive, whether you’re just starting to chat or already in a relationship. The right message can make him smile, blush, or even count the minutes until he sees you again. From sweet and playful to bold and steamy, this list of flirty texts has everything you need to keep him hooked and thinking about you nonstop. Ready to make his day? 

Playful and Innocent Texts to Make Him Crave Your Attention

Light and breezy messages that keep him intrigued without being too obvious.

1. “Guess what? I just saw something that reminded me of you… but I’ll tell you if you ask nicely. 😏”
2. “Is it just me, or is today the perfect day for me to steal your hoodie?”
3. “I just realized something. You make smiling way too easy for me. 😄”
4. “If being charming was a crime, you’d be serving life.”
5. “Quick question: Who gave you permission to look this good?”

Hilarious and Clever Flirty Texts That’ll Make Him Laugh Out Loud

Show off your sense of humor while subtly flirting.

1. “Are you Google? Because you’ve got everything I’ve been searching for.”
2. “If flirting were an Olympic sport, I’d win gold… but only with you watching.”
3. “Did it hurt when you fell from the vending machine? Because you’re a snack.”
4. “I was going to play hard to get, but you’re just too irresistible.”
5. “Are you my phone charger? Because you give me a jolt of energy.”

Adorably Cute Texts to Make Him Smile Every Time

Sweet and heartwarming messages that make you unforgettable.

1. “I saw a puppy today, and it made me think of you—cute and cuddly!”
2. “I hope your day is as amazing as yours (which is a high bar to clear).”
3. “You know what’s missing from my day? Your smile.”
4. “I think my coffee tastes better when I’m texting you. Coincidence?”
5. “Just a little reminder: You’re someone’s favourite person. (Hint: It’s me.)”

‘Would You Rather?’ Flirty Texts That Make You Both Think and Laugh

Engage him in playful scenarios that lead to flirty banter.

1. “Would you rather take me out for dinner or surprise me with dessert?”
2. “Would you rather have super powers or just the power to make me smile daily?”
3. “Would you rather be my crime partner or getaway driver?”
4. “Would you rather plan the date, or let me surprise you?”
5. “Would you rather cuddle on the couch or dance under the stars?”

Romantic Morning and Night Texts to Make Him Think About You All Day

Be the first and last thought on his mind.

1. “Good morning! Just wanted to say that you make the sun shine a little brighter.”
2. “Sweet dreams! Don’t forget—I’m in them.”
3. “Good morning! Are you ready to make today as amazing as you are?”
4. “Goodnight. Just imagine me sending this with a goodnight kiss. 😘”
5. “Woke up smiling today, and I blame you.”

Morning Flirty Texts That’ll Be His Favorite Wake-Up Call

Brighten his mornings with these messages.

1. “Good morning! Hope your coffee is as strong as my feelings for you.”
2. “Woke up thinking about you. Again. Guess you’re my new alarm clock!”
3. “If mornings were better with company, imagine how great they’d be with me.”
4. “Rise and shine! You’ve got a fan cheering for you all day.”
5. “Texting you before coffee? That’s how special you are.”

Evening Flirty Texts That’ll Have Him Dreaming About You

Make your presence felt, even at the end of the day.

1. “Just checking in to see if I’m still your favourite text today.”
2. “It’s officially cuddle weather. Where are you hiding?”
3. “Thinking about you is my favourite bedtime routine.”
4. “The stars are beautiful tonight, but you’d outshine them any day.”
5. “What’s your bedtime story tonight? Because I’d like to star in it.”

Spicy and Sexy Flirty Texts to Turn Up the Heat

Take the flirtation to a new level with bolder messages.

1. “I can’t stop thinking about you… in that outfit from the other day.”
2. “Is it hot in here, or is it just the thought of seeing you again?”
3. “If you keep looking that good, I’ll have to start calling you trouble.”
4. “Let me know when you’re ready to see just how much fun we can have together.”
5. “Thinking about you is my favourite guilty pleasure.”

Long-Distance Texts That’ll Make Him Feel Close, Even From Afar

Bridge the gap with romantic and flirty words.

1. “Miles don’t mean a thing when I feel this close to you.”
2. “I can’t wait for the day when I can text you ‘I’m outside.’”
3. “Your texts are my favourite part of the day, but I’d trade them for you in person.”
4. “I’m counting down the days until I can steal a hug from you again.”
5. “Being apart is tough, but you’re worth every moment.”

How to Confidently Ask Him Out Over Text (Without Awkwardness!)

Flirty and fun ways to suggest a date.

1. “I know a great place we should try. When are you free?”
2. “I’ve got two tickets for [insert fun activity]. Care to join me?”
3. “Guess who just found the perfect excuse to spend time with you?”
4. “Would it be weird if I said I’m free Friday and would love to see you?”
5. “How about you, me, and an amazing dessert this weekend?”

How to Text Him and Follow Up After a Great Date

Keep the momentum alive with these thoughtful yet flirty texts.

1. “I had such a great time last night. I can’t stop smiling—your fault!”
2. “So, how soon is too soon to plan the next date? Asking for a friend. 😉”
3. “I’ve been replaying last night in my head… and I think we need a sequel.”
4. “Thanks for such a fun night! You’ve officially ruined me for all other dates.”
5. “Still recovering from how much fun I had last night—when’s round two?”

Long-Distance Flirty Texts to Stay Connected

Keep the spark alive, no matter the miles.

1. “Just a little reminder: You’re my favourite human on the planet (even if you’re far away).”
2. “Texting you isn’t the same as seeing you, but it’s the next best thing.”
3. “I just saw something that made me laugh and thought, ‘He’d love this.’”
4. “I can’t wait to close the distance between us. Counting down the days!”
5. “Even from miles away, you still manage to make my heart skip a beat.”

Sweet Good Night Texts for Him to Melt His Heart

End his day on a high note.

1. “Good night, handsome. Sweet dreams… unless I’m in them, then it’s a wild adventure!”
2. “I wish I could say this goodnight text in person, but for now, this will do. 💕”
3. “Good night! Don’t stay up too late thinking about me… or do. 😉”
4. “Rest well, because tomorrow we’re back to me distracting you all day!”
5. “Goodnight! Just imagine I’m giving you a goodnight hug right now.”

Sexy Flirty Texts for Him to Heat Things Up

Turn up the charm and keep him on his toes.

1. “Is it bad that I keep imagining your arms around me? Because I do.”
2. “You make looking good seem way too easy. Stop distracting me! Or don’t.”
3. “If you’re free tonight, I might just have the perfect way to keep us warm.”
4. “I can’t stop thinking about that smile of yours… it’s dangerous.”
5. “Tell me your secrets: How do you make me want to text you all the time?”

Tips for Asking Him Out Over Text Without Sounding Awkward

Make your intentions clear, but keep it fun.

1. “Hey, I was thinking… I’d love to see you this weekend. Interested?”
2. “There’s a new restaurant I’ve been dying to try. Care to join me?”
3. “Hypothetically, if I wanted to plan a perfect day for you, would you say yes?”
4. “You + me + a good movie = the perfect Friday night. Agree?”
5. “I need a partner for [insert fun activity] this weekend. Think you can handle it?”

Romantic Good Morning and Good Night Texts to Keep Him Smiling

Start and end the day on a romantic note.

1. Morning: “Good morning! You’re the first thought on my mind today. 😊”
2. Night: “Sweet dreams! Don’t forget to save a spot for me in your dreams.”
3. Morning: “Rise and shine, sleepyhead! The day’s better when you’re in it.”
4. Night: “Good night! Just imagine me stealing one of your hoodies right now.”
5. Morning: “Woke up thinking about our next adventure. When are we planning it?”

In Summary

Flirting over text is an art, but it’s also about being yourself and letting your personality shine through. Use humour, sweetness, and just the right amount of spice to make him look forward to your messages.

Frequently Asked Questions About Flirty Texts for Him

What are some good flirty questions to ask a guy when you first start talking?

1. “What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?”
2. “If I stole your heart, would you want it back?”
3. “What’s the most romantic thing you’ve done for someone?”

What are juicy questions to ask a guy to build sexual tension?

1. “What’s one thing you wish more people complimented you on?”
2. “If I dared you to kiss me, would you?”
3. “What’s something you’ve always wanted to try?”

What are cute ways to flirt over text?

1. “Stop being so adorable; it’s distracting!”
2. “You’ve got some serious texting skills… can’t wait to see what else you’re good at.”
3. “I bet you’re smiling right now. Nailed it, didn’t I?”

How can you tell if your flirty texts are working?

Look for signs like quick replies, emojis that match your tone, and him starting to flirt back or initiate conversations.

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𝐈’𝐦 Poppy Snow 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 “𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬 ” 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐨𝐫. 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐟𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐬. 𝐈 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞. 𝐀𝐭 “𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬” 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬. 𝐃𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐣𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐝𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐨𝐫.